We often tend to face many issues from multiple people throughout our life at different levels and situations, but all that we choose to do is settle for others opinion, perception and behaviour. IS IT REALLY WHAT WE NEED TO DO?
According to me, it is just not needed. BUT WHY?
Here’s why! The damage that is caused by one’s action is something that we try to change but we eventually cannot, in the process of fixing things we usually end up being affected deep down that we change ourself and plan our moves according to others. This is the stage of settling down at the cost of our own capabilities and willingness to do things how we want them to be.
I do not choose to settle down! I do not really wish anyone to compromise their happiness by trying to either fit in the environment or with the people they are not meant to be with. The people who succeed putting you down without you even knowing, are the people who are negative and will pull you down step by step causing damage to you.
WHAT’S THE SOLUTION TO THIS?
Do you know the opposite of self-love? it is SELF-DOUBT. When you stop questioning yourself and start to believe in your capabilities, you refuse to compromise. Speak up what you want, what you feel and design your path according to you, this destroys self-doubt.
Here is the time when you knock on the door to self-love, you are satisfied, stronger, passionate, you have goals and a clear mind set, you are more confident and responsible. Then comes the time you feel relaxed you take up new things, new challenges, your social life gets better, and eventually you feel HAPPIER!
You can conquer every single situation that comes in your path, you can tackle people who try to pull you down. This is the blissful feeling of self-love. When you choose self-love instead of self doubt you become the ruler of your life and you feel powerful, you are able to help others too.
BE HAPPY AND LOVE YOURSELF!
Write your unique way to knock the door to self-love in the comment section.
INSPIRE! 